Theme for this week: Ritual

Wednesday at Yoga for Queers. 5:30 and 7pm
Saturday at Align and Shine. 10:30a-12p

I am FINALLY back from my epic travels…and an even MORE EPIC virus that knocked me on my ass for 8 days! Thanks to the love and support of so many of you near and far, as well as 8 solid days of bed rest (it sounds lovely, but I guarantee you it was NOT), I am back in the game.

Let’s get back in the game together. Now is the ideal time for getting back into your life-giving rituals.

This is the time of year in which many folks are coming back and settling in. Virgo season is perfect for that–leaning into the regimented and organized energy of a routine that will make the work of your life more possible. In routine and regimen can be much freedom, as they support you in establishing a rhythm that your body heart and mind will respond to favorably.

Ritual is much like regimen or routine, but with an added element of the sacred. In ritual we choose to infuse simple acts with intention, allowing them to take on greater significance and allowing their impact to expand. Each time we intentionally revisit the ritual, it is embued it with even greater energy.

The practice of yoga can be one of many rituals that can bear fruit in all aspects of your life. For many of you, yoga is a sacred weekly ritual, as well as a great time to connect with folks, meet new people, explore your edges in healthy and fun ways, and often blow your own mind with what you can do!

The ritual of choosing to spend your time and resources intentionally–to make the choices you need to make to not only get yourself to class on time but in a place to give and receive from the highest–is empowering and freeing. Empowering because in saying “no” to some things in order to say “yes” to others, you embrace a a discipline that is freely chosen, based on knowing what serves you, what lifts you up, what reminds you of your nature. The subsequent effect on your whole self (physically, mentally, emotionally) is affirmation enough. Freeing because in making choices which serve you, you are lining up with the flow and tapping in to the currents of the Universe that are always expanding–just like you. Simply put, when you align with nature, the magic and healing and energy and everything just flows.

How can you tap into the cosmic storehouse that is Virgo in choosing right now to institute and affirm rituals which will support you in taking the fullest form of the pose of your life? Making a choice to support healthy rhythms in your life becomes almost instantly self-fullfilling, especially when the rituals include time for observing the effects, bearing witness to your own Self and how you respond to the choices you make to move towards freedom.

I myself am getting into a whole new slew of rituals and a discipline freely chosen, in order to support this new phase of my life. How can recommitting to your yoga practice support you in making and holding space in other parts of your life? Come explore ritual together this week.

This Week: Openness (Last Week of Classes)

In all my classes: Saturday, Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday


Nothing like a slew of new experiences to remind me that I still have so much to learn.  I’m blazing all these trails in my life and getting consistently humbled by my own limitations, as well as my own preconceptions, judgments, preferences, etc.  Such fertile ground for clarifying my values, rooting myself in an expanding base of self-awareness, and remembering that I am never acting alone. In short, fertile ground for the ongoing cultivation of openness.

All this newness is providing constant reminders to take a dose of my own medicine re beginner’s mind, reverence, humility, and especially patience.  Everyone does have a piece of the truth, and the more I engage in the world with an open mind and a soft heart, the greater my ability to receive those truths–to learn from and be changed by them.

Belief in abundance, and the fact that the Universe wants what I want, requires me to be open to the magical and mysterious ways that the Universe works in my life and through me, conspiring to remind me of my own true nature.  The more open I am to receiving those messages, the better I know myself and the clearer my vision for how I want to move in the world.

I’m also headed out for two plus weeks of traveling adventures, which is a great time to anchor myself in openness –-and you too, as you (hopefully) decide to still come to class and give my wonderful subs a try. Subs are teachers too, and I’ve lined up some sweet ones for you!

Next Thursday 7/31 is my last class for a few weeks, and when I return I’ll have a more limited teaching schedule for awhile – I’m starting a graduate program and cultivating openness to everything that will bring, including some limitations on other investments of time and energy. At this point I am hoping to keep my Saturday morning Align and Shine class, so I hope I’ll see you there in the future!

In the meantime, join me tomorrow as we move through a practice designed to help us all stay open to the mystery and magic of the moment, on the mat and in the world.

This Week: Reverence

In all my classes: Saturday, Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday

Everything in you and around you is made of the same stuff as the Universe. Pure Consciousness in endless different forms. Which means that everything is sacred, and everyone can be your teacher.

Keeping this in mind can inspire you to treat everything and everyone with reverence, bringing compassion and patience to all situations and all beings. This is easier said than done, but the practice of yoga can help: it helps to connect you to your own blissful and whole nature. As you get more in touch with that nature, the practice of yoga supports the cultivation of the kind of compassion and patience required to meet all of life’s situations with a sense of openness to the journey and a deep sense of gratitude for the blessings.

All things, all people can be welcomed and received with a spirit of wonder and adventure since they truly offer you greater insight into your own profound self. You can face unknown situations, or people who are totally unlike you, with a sense of grateful familiarity as you look for and see in them that which is present in you. Everyone has a piece of the truth. The more you are willing to open yourself to the different truths and perspectives that fill this world, the greater your ability to honor yourself and your own nature. To treat yourself and others and all beings with the kind of reverence we all deserve.

This is an especially important time to reflect on the intrinsic value and inherit importance of every single being in existence given the horrific genocide unfolding in Gaza and the humanitarian and political crisis occurring with the thousands of political refugee children on the US southern border. If we truly believe in the reverence of all beings, we must pay attention to this reality and act in every way we can to transform it.


GSO: Not Goodbye but Until Soon…

Dearest GSO Queers and Misfits,

It is with much sadness that I sit down to write this: some of you heard this last week in class, but I am reaching out here and now to let you know that I have to say “hasta pronto/until soon…” to you all for the time being!

I start a full-time graduate program in just over a month, and I am doing my best to establish a steady foundation for this new undertaking. Part of that work includes the need to let go of some existing commitments, and I am sad to say that this class is one of them. I just don’t see myself having the time and energy to offer you my best in the context of the many new commitments that graduate school will bring.

Therefore, after July, I will not be offering weekly Yoga for Queers and Misfits classes in Greensboro. I am hopeful that I will be able to offer perhaps a monthly workshop or master class, and if it becomes clear that I have more space and time than I expect, know that re-instating this class is at the top of my list.

I consider it a tremendous gift and honor to have spent these last 17 months exploring embodiment, community, and radical self-acceptance in a supportive and joyful environment alongside all of you. I have learned so much from you by way of your devotion, your adventurousness, your commitment to holding space for each other, and the incredible support you’ve offered by way of spreading the word to bring in more and more Queers and Misfits.

I cannot express to you how sad this makes me… I can only say that I prefer to think of this as an “hasta luego” (until later…) and not a goodbyeforever.

Y’all are the reason I do what I do and the reason I am who I am.

In the meantime, there’s still THREE MORE WEEKS of class so please come on out and continue to explore all the amazing things your community has to offer you. Thursdays 5:30-7 at Greensboro Community Yoga.

Until soon,

Patty aka Patoi Roja

This Week: The Balance

In all my classes
Saturday, Monday, Wednesday and Thursday
7/12 – 7/17

Abhyasa and Vairagya are Sanskrit words that are often taken as the supreme or most essential teachings that come from out of the Yoga Sutras, some of the first texts to codify yoga as a physical and spiritual path.

There are many ways to interpret these terms, and they are often loosely rendered as practice and non-attachment, respectively. Striking a balance between these two is a bit like finding the sweet spot in the middle between “Never giving up” and “Always letting go.”

Abhyasa is persistent, devoted practice. An unfailing commitment to singing the song of your own heart, to consciously and consistently choosing to line up with Something Greater, to always weigh your options in the context of what will serve you on your higher path. Making the choice again and again to choose yourself.

Vairagya is non-attachment to the outcome of your efforts. In some traditions, this is understood as non-attachment from people, corporal sensations like pleasure and security, and even from desire itself. In my tradition, non-attachment is understood more in relationship to one’s work: the way that you undertake efforts, make the fullest offering in every moment, without attachment to the fruits or the outcome. In this, deeper and more nuanced understandings of non-attachment may emerge, such as non-attachment from limiting ideas of self and illusions of permanence.

You can see perhaps how these two teachings can support and affirm each other: through consistent and devoted commitment to knowing and singing the song of your own heart, you get clearer and clearer about your purpose in this life and about the spirit in which you want to undertake your life’s work. In this, there is Ultimate Freedom. It’s not that you cease to care about the impacts of your actions, its just that you get better at tuning in to what your heart is moving you to do and be in this world…and in that you are doing infinite service to the world. When you are following your heart and choosing skillfully and steadily to line up with something greater, you can experience a sense of true liberation. The ability to let go, to not cling, to detach (with love!) from the illusion of control.

When you align with nature, magic happens. And there is nothing more natural or magical than residing in…and moving from your heart. Join your community this week as we explore the balance of effort and ease.